In this enlightening episode of Suburban Burnout, we sit down with Erin Aschman, a seasoned forensic nurse examiner, to tackle the tough subjects of child molestation and intimate partner violence.
As parents, we all share a common fear: the nightmare scenario where our child becomes a victim of molestation or intimate partner violence. It's a chilling thought, but it's crucial to be prepared and informed on how to react if such a situation ever arises. In this special episode of Suburban Burnout, Erin sheds light on the statistics that often dominate the news, offers invaluable advice on what to do in the face of such harrowing circumstances, and dispels the myths that popular media can perpetuate.
Key Takeaways:
1. Open Communication is Key: It's a truth universally acknowledged that having difficult and awkward conversations with your kids isn't easy. However, the more you engage with them, the better you'll understand their lives. Make it known that they can confide in you about anything and MEAN it. Let them know that adults have resources and solutions for problems they might not even be aware of. Teach them that they deserve better and should never tolerate an abusive relationship.
2. Observe Your Child's Behavior: Victims of intimate partner violence, molestation, and bullying often display physical signs of the stress they're enduring. Are they constantly complaining of stomach pain or headaches? Have their school grades seen a decline? Are they avoiding social situations or specific people? These questions are vital, and if you notice any red flags, have a thoughtful conversation with your child.
3. Believe Your Child: False reports of child molestation are exceedingly rare. If your child comes to you with a troubling incident, believe them. Maintain your composure and assure them of your unwavering support and love. Report the incident to the authorities without hesitation.
4. Lead by Example: Children learn about healthy relationships by observing the adults in their lives. It's essential to model the kind of relationship you'd want for your children. Ensure that adult discussions or disagreements happen in private, away from children's ears. If a relationship becomes toxic or abusive, actively seek help and develop a plan to remove yourself and your children from the situation.
Tune in to this powerful episode of Suburban Burnout as we dive into these critical topics with Erin. Your child's safety and well-being are of utmost importance, and by staying informed, you can better protect and support them in today's complex world.
Don't miss this episode; it's a conversation that every parent should hear.
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Meet Our Guest:
Erin Aschman is a double board-certified nurse and the Associate Manager of the Forensic Nurse Examiner program at the University of Colorado Hospital. After a career in the finance industry, she had a calling to help people in a new way. In 2019, she earned her Bachelors of Science in Nursing with honors from the University of Colorado and began working with oncology and blood disorder patients. But she quickly found her true passion lies with helping victims of violence trauma. Erin has co-authored chapters and journal articles on sexual assault, consent, gender-based violence, vulnerable populations, and family violence. She regularly testifies in court as an expert witness and also co-chairs the Healthcare Subcommittee of the Denver Anti-Trafficking Alliance.
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